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By Suzann Pileggi - December 27, 2008

Suzann Pileggi   Suzann Pileggi, MAPP ‘08, is a wellness writer and consultant. She is a monthly columnist for the International Positive Psychology Association (IPPA) newsletter and Wisdom magazine, and a certified holistic health counselor. Suzann’s website. Suzie writes on the 27th of every month. Her previous articles are here. She also has one previous article as a guest author here.

Do We Have a Choice?
Do you sometimes move automatically and unconsciously through life, reacting to people and situations? It often seems that mindlessness, rather than mindfulness, permeates our lives.


Watching Television
We mindlessly stuff ourselves at the dinner table, whittle away hours in front of the tube, or succumb to our shopping urges and overspend.  Mindless habits like these often steer us off-course on our road to health and happiness.  Are we on automatic pilot or do we have a choice?  Perhaps we do not believe in our own ability to control our lives, and this may be why self-regulation has consistently ranked at the bottom of the list of 24 Values-in-Action (VIA) strengths for the typical American.
Martin Seligman of the University of Pennsylvania teaches that happiness is not something that just happens to us but rather something that we must consciously choose. By being mindful, we increase our opportunities to choose. Kirk Brown of Virginia Commonwealth University and Richard Ryan of the university of Rochester write in a summary of self-regulation that mindfulness is
Mindfulness bell

“an open or receptive awareness of and attention to what is taking place in the present moment.”

Mindfulness creates a mental distance between one and one’s behavior. This “observant stance” increases self-awareness and the opportunity to choose and direct our actions.   In fact, mindfulness enables us to tap our collective strengths and act on them. I believe that mindfulness helps cultivate character by bolstering the full 24 strengths. In Talks to Teachers, William James emphasizes the importance of paying attention to what we do. He argues that we need to maximize and focus our energy in order to fulfill our potential for the good life.

Like William James, Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi of Claremont Graduate University suggests that controlling our willful attention impacts our feelings and makes life happy or miserable. Csikszentmihalyi argues that most people use their minds as little as possible and “fall far below their capacity for processing information.” Only through consciously directed energy, congruent with our goals, do we create more optimal experiences or “flow” in our lives.

Positive psychology demonstrates that we can improve happiness by changing how we focus on the world. I believe mindfulness is a first step to make this happen. A natural strength for some, for the majority of others (particularly Americans), mindfulness is something we need to practice.

Benefits of Mindfulness

Being present enables us to focus, practice and further build our inherent strengths from the VIA results. As William James argues, what’s essential is what we focus on and where we direct our attention. By being mindful of our strengths, we focus more on them and seek out the opportunities to practice using our natural qualities in new and different ways.

Mindfulness uplifts ourselves, and elevates others as well, by increasing self-regulation, a key component of emotional intelligence (EQ). EQ, rather than IQ, has been linked to greater flourishing by producing positive outcomes across all domains of life. By focusing our energy on regulating our behavior and increasing mindfulness, we can learn to act in ways that enable us to achieve our desired goals (e.g., lose weight, write that novel, save money, etc.).  Mindfulness can teach us how to be emotionally “smarter” by enhancing critical life-skills that help us create healthy habits. James argues that acquired good habits, unlike instinctual ones, are learned entirely through practice.

Mindfulness Can Help Build a Better Society

A person who exhibits mindfulness displays it in most areas of their life and rather consistently. Epitomes of mindfulness like Buddha, Jesus, and the Dalai Lama live their lives fully present and deliberately.

Lack of mindfulness is often exhibited as insensitivity to others, all to common in today’s culture. Roy Baumeister of Florida State University illustrates how the regular practice of mindfulness can increase self-regulation. Lack of self-regulation is at the root of many psychological and social problems. Fortunately, unlike a fixed trait, self-regulation can be taught and can be used to overcome personality flaws. For this reason, Baumeister refers to it as the “trump card of personality.” Increased self-regulation in one area of life tends to seep into other domains as well resulting in overall improvement of self-control in an individual’s life. Thus, mindfulness can help strengthen the self-regulatory muscle and enhance psychological and physical health by controlling unattractive habits.

Brown and Ryan’s research supports mindfulness as assisting in halting habitual responses – perhaps overeating and overspending – in turn enabling us to make more conscious choices that are aligned with our goals – e.g. losing weight and saving money. Individuals who flourish in the face of adversity are those who believe that they have control over their emotions and employ the necessary actions to alter their behavior in times of stress. The originators of the study of emotional intelligence - Peter Salovey, David Caruso, and John Mayer - argue that emotionally intelligent and mindful people do better in the classroom, the boardroom (and probably the bedroom!) since they enjoy more positive interactions with people. University of Michigan’s Christopher Peterson writes that “other people matter” the most to our happiness.  Therefore, it’s not surprising that evidence shows that mindful people experience a higher level of psychological thriving across their lives.

A Mindful Life Can Lead You to Your Goals in 2009

In today’s world where our attention is vied for by a myriad of forces – commercial, economic, political – mindfulness reflection on how we want to invest our energy in order to produce optimal functioning seems more important than ever. Shamini Jain of the University of California at San Diego and colleagues have studied mindfulness training versus relaxation training.  According to Jain and her colleagues, practicing mindfulness

  • reduces distraction and rumination,
  • decreases overall stress, and
  • enhances positive states of mind.

Who doesn’t want that? By engaging in physical and mental mindfulness exercises like savoring, meditation, and yoga, we can focus our attention and direct our behavior to achieve our goals – as a result, we can increase our happiness. So, what not give mindfulness a try today?

Images: watching TV, mindfulness bell, trees, melons, zen

References are in the first comment below this article.

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By Guest Author - December 25, 2008

By Ryan M. Niemiec, Guest Author

Ryan Niemiec Ryan M. Niemiec, PsyD. Psychologist, consultant, and seminar and retreat leader; co-author of two books, Positive Psychology at the Movies (2008) and Movies and Mental Illness (2005). See www.PositivePsychologyMovies.com.

Social Fabric

“When you are upset or stressed, who do you turn to for support?”
“No one.”

“Do you have people who offer support to you at work or home?”
“No.”

VisitorThese are two of the saddest responses I have heard.  As a clinical psychologist I hear these words often. If Walter Vale – the lonely, isolated professor in The Visitor – walked into my office, these would be his responses as well. In a word, Walter is languishing (vs. flourishing). He lives a mindless existence, without a purpose, going through the motions in his academic work. He could be described as an automaton, consuming and floating along the surface of life. Walter eats alone, drinks wine alone every night, and is disengaged at work meetings. He avoids anything new and when he’s offered to go to New York City to give a talk at a conference, he contrives numerous reasons to get out of it. One gets the impression that if Walter were to die, no one would notice. And this significant - as Mother Teresa said: “Being unwanted is the worst disease that any human being can ever experience.”  The Visitor has been selected for the Sundance film festival, the Toronto film festival, and others.

Corey KeyesPsychologist Corey Keyes of Emory University frequently writes about the “diagnosis” of mental health and the flourishing-languishing continuum.  Keyes places emphasis on social well-being as critical in a healthy adjustment to life. According to Keyes, a socially healthy person:

  1. Sees society as meaningful and understandable
  2. Sees society as possessing growth potential
  3. Feels a sense of community belonging and acceptance
  4. Accepts most parts of society
  5. Sees oneself as contributing to society

The Positive Snowball

Visitor 3Walter is not socially healthy initially.  But he changes. He comes alive.  He comes home one day to see two illegal immigrants living in his house (trailer).  And - strangely - he befriends them.  And in so doing, starts adventures that include Djembe drumming (a West African hand drum). Walter moves from isolation to social connection slowly. As he connects, he becomes more aware of himself: “The truth is I haven’t done any real work in a long time,” as he refers literally to his university work and metaphorically to working on improving his life.

Just as negative experiences can lead to more negative experiences (the snowball effect), positive changes can do the same creating a “positive snowball” effect. Adept positive psychologists and coaches capitalize on this virtuous circle in their work with clients, helping them to build strengths that in turn “build up” other strengths.

Curiosity as a Doorway to Coming Alive

Walter’s curiosity in humanity and in different cultural practices emerges and piques as he reaches out to help others. Todd Kashdan of George Mason University and Michael Steger of Colorado State University describe in a 2007 paper the character strength of curiosity and how it assists in constructing and searching for meaning in life:  Walter’s burgeoning curiosity for life, humanity, and music clearly leads to a deeper sense of life meaning. Walter begins to find meaning in playing music and in the lives of three individuals cast aside by society. The virtuous circle opens up and Walter’s strengths of open-mindedness, fairness, playfulness, and kindness reinforce his strengths of curiosity and meaning/purpose (spirituality).

The theme of meeting and developing “unlikely friendships” is not a new one to director Tom McCarthy, who explored the transformative role of connection between an isolated dwarf, a suicidal woman, and quirky hot dog vendor in the cinematic gem, The Station Agent (2003). These three characters, prior to their friendship, would answer the preceding questions in the same way as Walter.

What Does “Visiting” Mean?

Visitor 2Walter, a man who’d previously been merely “visiting” life has shifted into a mode of engagement, connection, and meaning. For us, the viewers, to experience this is no doubt cinematic elevation.  As I write about with my co-author Danny Wedding in our book Positive Psychology at the Movies: the viewer feels the positive emotion (while we observe Walter’s character change) and wants to take some meaningful action in his own lif when the film credits conclude.

Subtlety in this beautiful little film captures a number of humanity’s moments: the slow movement toward the social, curious thoughts leading to a purpose.  These are turning-point moments of choice in which self-reflection leads to a change in perspective, the gleeful smile of a character receiving a surprise, and the comforting joy of someone who knows their gift has been well-received. This film reminds us that life is a collection of moments.

References

Kashdan, T., & Steger, M. (2007). Curiosity and pathways to well-being and meaning in life: Traits, states, and everyday behaviors. Motivation and Emotion, 31, 159–173.

Keyes, C. L. M. (2002). The mental health continuum: From languishing to flourishing in life. Journal Health and Behavior Research, 43, 207–222.

Niemiec, R. M., & Wedding, D. (2008). Positive psychology at the movies: Using films to build virtues and character strengths. Gottingen, Germany: Hogrefe.

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By Marie-Josée Salvas - December 24, 2008

Christmas BuffetYou are in front of the traditional, very tempting Holiday buffet. Initially you had planned to eat reasonably, but now that you are facing the spread, your will is melting faster than the candles illuminating the table.

If you choose self-regulation over temptation, chances are you will be satisfied and energetic. If on the other hand you give in and pig out, you will experience the bloated and guilty feeling that inevitably follows overeating. So what do you do? Here are my top 10 strategies for healthy buffet-management.

1. Be Prepared.  Studies by Roy Baumeister of Florida State University and colleagues demonstrate a small dose of carbohydrate can help replenish a depleted ability to self-regulate. My first suggestion: make sure you are not completely starving when you get to the buffet! If you deprive yourself of food prior to the event, not only will your will power be long-gone, but your ability to justify overeating will also be increased, quite a counter-productive strategy.

2. Pace Dishes.  Take out healthier foods (a veggie tray, multigrain crackers with low-fat cheese) before you serve the buttery puffed pastries and other creamy bites. Your guests will fill up on the good stuff and be stronger for what follows.

3. Choose Your Trays Wisely.  Serve healthier options in larger serving trays and use larger serving utensils. Keep the least commendable options in smaller dishes and serve them with your tiny cutlery.  Paul Rozin of the University of Pennsylvania has found that Americans use larger serving sizes than Europeans, and that when smaller serving sizes are used, people eat less.

4. Place Your Trays Wisely.  To maximize profits, buffets tend to place cheaper foods in areas that are most accessible because they know that patrons are more likely to serve themselves more of it. Use this strategy to your advantage and make lighter foods the easiest to grab.

Holiday bouquet5. Decorate. The more abundant the food, the more we eat. Plan room on the table for a fresh flower bouquet and other decorations. This will make your spread look plentiful without having to serve more food.

6. Water It Down. Replacing one or two alcoholic beverages with water can easily shave as much as 300 empty calories off your meal, not to mention that it helps fill up the stomach quicker. To make your pitcher nice and appealing, add slices of strawberries, orange, lemon as well as mint leaves.  This option is tasty, interesting, and full of vitamins!

7. Just Right.  People tend to agree that “one is appropriate.” If you serve a piece of pie weighing 10 ounces, that’s what your guests will eat. If your serving size is 4 ounces, they are very likely to stop there. Try serving your deserts in small pre-cut pieces. (Caution here! If the serving is so small that it looks bite-size, the strategy will backfire!)

8. Get Moving.  Plan an activity shortly after the meal to detract attention away from eating and towards connecting. If that activity involves mild caloric expenditure (a Wii or ping-pong tournament, walking in the neighborhood to admire decorations, etc.), you get bonus points. Your family get together will have more to offer than just food.

Arm Twister9. No To Arm Twisters!  Discourage anyone to tell others that they have to taste, that one more drink won’t kill them, or that they should indulge a bit more. This might have been a fun behavior a century ago when overeating was a rare occurrence, but should no longer be socially acceptable in a society where overindulging already happens too often. We know better.

10. Yes To a Buddy System.  Getting peer support is an important ingredient when enacting change. If food acts on you like a magnet on metal, ask a buddy to nudge you if you go overboard. If that’s not enough to discourage you, take a formal bet to pay your accomplice $100 for each plate of food you eat past your main course and desert. That should do it!

Lastly, the Holidays may be the last week of the year, and you may want to give yourself carte blanche to not self-regulate and that’s fair game too. If that’s your choice, just remember that the expression “use it or lose it” applies here, so I would recommend using a “controlled self-deregulation” strategy rather than a total gluttonous feast.

Happy Holidays everyone!
May 2009 be filled with peace, warmth, health and accomplishments! 

Images: Holiday Buffet Holiday BouquetArm Twister

References

Baumeister, R. F., Gailliot, M., DeWall, C. N., & Oaten, M. (2006). Self-regulation and personality: How interventions increase regulatory success, and how depletion moderates the effects of traits on behavior. Journal of Personality, 74(6), 1773-1801.

Boyle, M.A. & Long, S. (2007). Personal Nutrition (with InfoTrac 1-Semester Printed Access Card). Sixth Edition. Belmont, CA: Thomson Wadsworth.

Prochaska, J.O., Norcross, J.C. & Diclemente, C.C. (1994). Changing for Good: A Revolutionary Six-Stage Program for Overcoming Bad Habits and Moving Your Life Positively Forward. New York: HarperCollins.

Rozin, P. (2006). Lecture for the Masters of Applied Positive Psychology.

Thaler, R. H. & Sunstein, C.R. (2008). Nudge: Improving Decisions About Health, Wealth, and Happiness. New Haven, CT: Yale University Press.

This article first appeared on Positive Psychology News Daily. To see the original article, click here. To comment on this article, click here.

Marie-Josee Salvas, MAPP, is the Co-Founder of Optimal Living, a company that offers Health and Wellbeing Consultancy services to individuals, corporations and communities. Marie-Josee has taught over 400 instruction sessions internationally. Full bio.

Marie-Josee writes on the 24th of each month, and her past articles are here.



Filed Under (Happiness Tips) by fong on 27-12-2008

By Gail Schneider - December 23, 2008

New Years ResolutionsIt’s that time of year again. If you are anything like me - Type A, and goal-oriented - your annual list of New Year’s resolutions is beginning to take shape. My usual approach to the process has been to look back on the year gone by and identify all the many things I wanted to accomplish and didn’t, a sobering exercise at best and one guaranteed to put the “Bah, Humbug” mind-set into your holiday celebrations! In prior years, I would construct my new resolutions on the shaky foundation of last year’s failures. I didn’t get to the gym enough last year… this next year, I’d typically resolve to go 5 days a week, maybe even 6. As a writer, I never did meet my goal of waking every morning and going straight to my computer for 3-4 uninterrupted hours of writing a day, so that one would be another candidate for top of the list. I think you get the picture. As you might expect, somewhere around mid to late January, my motivation and enthusiasm for my new set of resolutions fell flatter than a day-old flute of champagne.

This year, I am determined to change it up and see what happens when I add some positive psychology principles to the mix.

Appreciatively Ask Myself

yoga classMy first step is to inquire appreciatively as to what went right for me in 2008. While the concept of appreciative inquiry developed by David Cooperider in the 1980’s is best known for its results in bringing about transformative changes in groups and institutions, the idea of focusing on what has worked rather than what has not can be equally powerful in promoting change in individuals.

For example, when I look back at the periods last year when I was most successful in maintaining a consistent pattern of exercise, I noticed that it was the several months right before the presidential election. I was riveted by the primary season and once the candidate slates were selected, they never failed to disappoint. Several days of the week I’d go to the gym and watch MSNBC and CNN simultaneously, switching between the 2 channels depending on the images on the screen and the crawl below. Before I knew it I had done 50 minutes on the elliptical machine without ever having looked at my watch. Now I know I can’t wait another four years before I go back to the gym, and even I have a limit for listening to pundits speculating about the Obama’s search for a new puppy, but I have learned that exercising while engaged in watching something that captures my attention makes the time fly by.

Building on Strengths, Not Weaknesses

Another step in the process is to build on strengths, not on weakness. It is no surprise that when I took the VIA questionnaire, self-regulation was lowest on my list. An unrealistic directive that I must exercise six-days-a-week is a recipe for failure for someone like me who is missing the “self-regulation” chip in her brain. I have other strengths like zest, wisdom, and love of learning and I can already envision numerous ways I can use these strengths to achieve my exercise and other goals. I found a yoga class I love (which allows me to connect with my inner wisdom), and going there twice a week has been a joy not a chore. I don’t need to resolve to go there; I want to go there, and that has made all the difference.

Recognizing and Being Grateful for My Wins

Finally I plan to add the practice of gratitude to the New Year’s resolution process. Robert Emmons’ new book thanks! is a comprehensive review of the power of gratitude and its ability to positively impact our psychological and physical well-being. Each of us may not have the self-regulation required to keep a nightly gratitude journal, but this time of year is a natural point of endings and beginnings, and so it is a perfect time for introspection and reflection on the many reasons we have to be grateful. It is through the lens of gratitude and on that far sturdier foundation that I will choose to look forward to 2009 and plan my future.

A Small Gift to You

In closing, I have a small gift for all the readers of Positive Psychology News Daily. It is one of my favorite poems. It is taped to the inside of a closet door in my home office. While I wish every reader a year of good health, happiness and prosperity, this is a gift for you when life disappoints, and you face challenges big and small or even those that blindside you and take your breath away. I have been there, it has comforted me, and I hope whenever you may need it, it will comfort you as well.

The Guest House
By Rumi

This being human is a guest house.
Every morning a new arrival.

A joy, a depression, a meanness,
Some momentary awareness comes
as an unexpected visitor.

Welcome and entertain them all!
Even if they’re a crowd of sorrows,
who violently sweep your house
empty of its furniture,
still, treat each guest honorably.
He may be clearing you out
for some new delight.

The dark thought, the shame, the malice,
meet them at the door laughing,
and invite them in.

Be grateful for whoever comes,
because each has been sent
as a guide from beyond.

Rumi
Rumi Meditating

 

Images: Exercise, New Year’s Resolutions, Rumi

 

Reference:

Cooperrider, D. & Whitney, D. (2005). Appreciative Inquiry: A Positive Revolution in Change. San Francisco: Berrett- Koehler Publishers.

Emmons, Robert A. (2007). Thanks!: How the New Science of Gratitude Can Make You Happier. New York: Houghton Mifflin Company.

VIA Questionnaire retrieved from Authentic Happiness website. http://authentichappiness.org.

This article first appeared on Positive Psychology News Daily. To see the original article, click here. To comment on this article, click here.

Gail A. Schneider, J.D., MAPP, brings to positive psychology an extensive background from the world of big business. After a 20 year career at JPMorgan Chase where she was an Executive Vice-President, she now works and writes on the issues of life transitions and the search for meaning and purpose in mid-life. Email Gail. Full bio.

Gail writes on the 23rd of every even month, and her past articles are here.



Filed Under (Happiness Tips) by fong on 27-12-2008

By Derrick Carpenter - December 22, 2008

Does Altruism Come in Various Types?

Power of GivingA few weeks back, I overheard a friend bemoan the lack of pure altruism in the world. Pure altruism is the act of doing something good to increase another person’s well-being for which the giver receives no benefit. As many of us prepare for holiday season highlighted by traditions of giving, I felt it might be a good time to give the old philosophical search for pure altruism a closer look.

Evolutionary theorists have used a divide-and-conquer approach to tackle the foundations for altruism. Some of the biggest altruistic moves we make are for our children. Under a model of evolution in which individuals are invested in the survival of their genes, helping a relative – who shares some of your own genes – will accomplish this, so altruism towards relatives makes sense. But we often do good deeds for friends and acquaintances as well. Some of these deeds are explained by the notion of reciprocal altruism, which operates via reciprocity. I will do a good deed for you now knowing that in the future, when I need help, you will return the favor. It’s sort of a social insurance policy. But how can we account the altruistic things we do without expectation of return or, for that matter, the help we offer to complete strangers including people across the world who we will never see?

Is There Pure Altruism?

A recent study at the University of Oregon used functional MRI machines to observe changes in brain patterns of participants in different giving conditions. Participants were given $100 and some were given the option to donate a portion of the money to a charity while others were levied a mandatory tax that was given to the charity. For the subjects in the optional giving condition, the researchers attempted to remove any standard rewards for giving to charity, like enjoying the “warm glow” effect of others admiring your charitable deeds or avoiding the social shame of not giving. The subjects made their choice in privacy, without anyone involved in study knowing how much, if any, money was donated. Some people have claimed the study as evidence of pure altruism since many participants still donated.

Shy SmileI feel this conclusion raises two interesting points that positive psychology must defend. First, even if the research participants received no public benefits and faced no public coercion to donate, that does not imply that they received no benefits. Perhaps doing a seemingly selfless deed simply gives us pleasure, a sense that we are meaningfully contributing to the world and making a difference. Psychological benefits should be considered as good as any other benefits. Secondly, and more broadly, why are some researchers and my friend so intent on unveiling an act of pure, selfless altruism? Such kindness would be accompanied by real pain and sacrifice, without any benefits, psychological or otherwise to the giver. I cannot understand why this type of giving is something of which we should be proud, if it does exist.

Perhaps the topic of pure altruism demands a paradigm shift. Professor and positive psychology bigwig Chris Peterson has noted that humans can get so caught up in human inability that we take for granted human abilities. Car accidents reported on the evening news inevitably capture our attention and force us to question what could have gone wrong. We infrequently consider that millions of drivers successfully and safely navigate roadways at lethal speeds coming just a few feet from unforgiving obstacles every day. A change of perspective can highlight how truly remarkable and amazing a human ability this is. Rather than groaning about the lack of pure altruism in the world, perhaps we need to change perspective and celebrate the grand human experience of feeling good when we commit a truly altruistic act. Our recipient benefits, but so do we. This seems part of the magic of the human experience.  Perhaps even a human ability?

Psychological Benefits of Altruism

On a whim, I decided to volunteer at the Philadelphia Marathon in mid-November hoping exposure to so many runners might inspire me to begin training myself. Since I was late to sign up, I was assigned to the race’s bag check group, where runners could drop off personal items like wallets and clothing right before the race in a series of empty school buses and pick them up as soon as they finished. This also meant I had to report to duty at 4:30am on Sunday. I braved the darkness and below-freezing weather with an unconvincing grin that morning, waiting to view some feats of great human achievement as I watched runners finish the 26.2 mile trek.

Philadelphia Marathon
Philadelphia Marathoners
As it turned out, the bag check station was completely closed off from the race and we could see nothing. Dismayed, I worked with my fellow volunteers to organize bags for the group of runners assigned to our bus. The race began and a within a few hours, runners were pouring back in to retrieve their things. We handed back everything to our runners as fast as we could, knowing that they were freezing and desperate for their sweatpants and jackets.

The bus next to us, however, had had trouble organizing their bags and a frustrated mob of cold runners was forming behind it. Watching them shiver in their shorts, I joined them to help however I could. I asked one or two dour-faced marathoners for their bib numbers and hopped on the bus to track them down. I was only able to help seven or eight runners, but the grateful look on their faces when I returned their precious bags gave me a serious warm glow. While helping to relieve the tired and cold brave bodies of these runners, I completely forgot about how tired and cold I was.

The lack of pure altruism among humans is a truly beautiful thing, a consequence of our innate predispositions to help our fellow neighbor. Would any of us prefer to live in a dark world in which good deeds required pain and suffering? The seemingly paradoxical connection of selflessness and selfishness makes me smile with a sense of hope about the human condition. As you give gifts of various sorts this holiday season, I encourage you to be extra mindful of the happiness you experience as a result.

Images
Hands proffering pennies, from The Power of Giving
School buses from
Roland the Jailer via Flickr
Marathon runners from Go Philly
Psychological benefit smile

References

Harbaugh, W. T., Mayer, U., & Burghart, D. R. (2007). Neural responses to taxation and voluntary giving reveal motives for charitable donations. Science, 316, 1622-1625.

More about altruism is included in:
Wright, R. (2001). Nonzero: The Logic of Human Destiny. New York: Vintage.

Wright, R. (1995). The Moral Animal: Why We Are, the Way We Are: The New Science of Evolutionary Psychology. New York: Vintage.

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Derrick Carpenter, MAPP, is currently a research coordinator at the University of Pennsylvania studying perceptual learning and mathematics education. Full bio.

Derrick writes on the 22nd of each month, and his past articles are here.



Harvard kicked off a small but ambitious experiment recently that it hopes will become a new “third stage” of university education. For the student-fellows in the program, most in their 50s and early 60s, the goal is a second-act career…



Filed Under (Treating Depression) by fong on 08-12-2008

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Filed Under (Treating Depression) by fong on 08-12-2008

The loss of hair is a question of important preoccupation by men and women all over. Nevertheless, the men suffer loss of hair in a young age and therefore they have to face serious psychological anxieties. They must even go against refusals of the union. The men try diverse Hair Loss Treatment for curing loss of hair to contradict this problem. The treatments of the hair loss depend to a large extent on the causes of the hair loss.

There are also several reversible causes of the hair loss amongst men. The main causes include the deficiency of iron or anemia, thyroid, infection fungicide of the hairy leather, use of some medicines of the prescription, and tension. Nevertheless, the men can get rid of these problems consulting to a doctor, who can suggest drugs of the treatment of the remedial measures and the loss of hair.

There are Hair Loss Medicines available in the market for the treatment of the loss of hair between men. One of the most popular drugs, than is becoming a preferred treatment of the loss of hair of men is Propecia.

Propecia works to improve the masculine baldness of the landlord being added a called hormone androgen. This hormone helps to balance the enzymes that inflict casualties your of hair. Propecia invests the process of the loss of hair. Nevertheless, for you rule appropriate of the use of Propecia, you must consult a doctor. Propecia is not safe for the use in each.

The psychological problems are also responsible for loss of hair between men. Besides Propecia - treatment of the loss of hair, the men must take the appropriate medication for the tension or the anxiety, if the causes of the loss of hair are psychological problems. Nevertheless, the medication of Propecia for the treatment of the loss of hair helps men to reduce anxiety whereas this one acquittal its problem of the loss of hair to a large extent.

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Filed Under (Treating Depression) by fong on 08-12-2008

Youngster’s car insurance is very necessary. It’s more or less obligatory to guard both car and the youngster. It is correct that addition of a youngster in the assurance strategy raises the premium for apparent causes. Boasting fresh driving evidence assists a lot in view of the fact that a particular DWI confidence can lift car assurance premium from support premium of few hundreds to thousands of bucks per annual.

A high-quality educational evidence and usual high school or university going youngster wins better reductions in car assurance strategy of many corporations.

Insurance corporations have a preference of slightest risk for the youth that proves responsible performance and in this regard a few driving school records or several community center associations is helpful in establishing the teenager trust able for the corporations. This gives him or her reduction in policy and doesn’t add up trouble on you additionally.

Protected car with security events is an approval for your youth. It engages mechanical seat belts, impact baggage, anti-lock breaks, and so on. Each family unit is worthy of the best, which consists of youngster car assurance, but protection of the family arrives first and to uphold that one has to be accountable and also must be honest. Though the insurance premium costs more it is the duty of the family to take care of it.

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